There is a big difference from loving your spouse in terms of, “I care for my spouse.” and loving them in a way that you are excited about them. Love is not a feeling. It is a verb that needs to be shown through actions.
If you can’t distinguish the difference between loving, and being in love, then ask yourself one simple question, “What 5 gestures have I made this past week to show my spouse that I love them and that I am still excited about them?”
I best most people can barely think of 1, if any. Start a new week. Write down 5 small gestures you want to do for your spouse this week on a little post it and keep it with you for reminder.
Now: Watch the change start to happen.
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